Hey what if some one don't dont want to put the city they live in is that ?

what in the fuck? Something like this, just ask someone on xfire, or post in the shoutbox. I don't think this requires a new thread

For your answer tho ( i think ) just dont do it?

share as much as you feel comfortable sharing. No worries.

also mary, when you start a topic, do not name it "mary". this tells us nothing about what will be in the post. think of a title that is relevant to what you post so that it will be useful.